Religious people see prayer as a beautiful thing – a way to connect with the creator of the universe, a means to give thanks for all the wonderful experiences we are able to enjoy, and an opportunity to ask for a helping hand every once in a while – either for themselves, a loved one, or a special cause.
And, although there is no proof for god’s existence, asking for divine intervention once in a while doesn’t seem like too big of an issue, right? Sure, praying for food prior to a meal seems like a silly practice – since even religious people understand how they are impacted by unhealthy food choices. But as for other prayer requests, most believers see them as 1) beneficial if there is a god and 2) harmless if there is no god… so what is there to lose, right? How could it possibly be unethical to ask God, if he exists, to help you get a job, or to boost your memory during a test, or to protect you as you travel?
Here’s the problem: If God doesn’t intervene all the time, personal prayer requests are the height of arrogance.
According to Christians who try to explain away the problem of pain and suffering in our world, God does NOT choose to intervene all the time because God has given us the freedom of choice to live our lives and deal with the consequences of our own decisions as well as the decisions of the rest of humanity throughout history.
Yet, Christians also believe that prayer requests can harness the power of God to change things – often to benefit a specific person or community. They believe this because it says so throughout the Bible, whether it’s Old Testament stories or New Testament messages.
However, if you look at this combination of beliefs more closely, it means that when a Christian is praying to God to help them get a job, they are praying for divine help so that they will be chosen for a particular job instead of somebody else (or instead of a nationwide 0% unemployment rate). And when they are praying for a memory-boost prior to a test, they are praying that they will have an unfair advantage over the rest of the class (or instead of asking God to boost the memory of all humankind). And when somebody prays for safe travels, they realize that accidents will naturally happen but ask for God to protect them from such things rather than somebody else (or instead of asking God to put an end to motor vehicle accidents for once and for all). Essentially, Christians are praying for extra-benefits in this world as opposed to the rest of humanity.
“To think that the ruler of the universe will run to my assistance and bend the laws of nature for me is the height of arrogance. That implies that everyone else (such as the opposing football team, driver, student, parent) is de-selected, unfavored by God, and that I am special, above it all.”
-Dan Barker, Losing Faith in Faith
If a Christian believes that God does not intervene all the time, since God has instead allowed us to face the consequences of free-choice, yet also believes that prayer can cause God to intervene once in a while… why waste prayers on ones own selfish or minuscule desires? Why not instead have every faithful believer pray for god to put an end to world hunger, cancer, and AIDS?
Why waste prayer requests on a job search, a test, or safe travels? Why waste prayer requests on specific surgeries? Why waste prayer requests on the health of specific marriages? Why waste prayer requests asking for sunny days or rain? If God only intervenes once in a while, then such prayer requests are the height of self-centered arrogance.
And what’s worse is the common response to supposed “answers to prayer”.
Of course, whether or not there is a god, sometimes prayer requests become reality. There are successful surgeries with and without god, sunny days happen, and people eventually find jobs. However, the most sickening idea about claiming that God intervened in order to cause such things is the idea that some people are singled out and their requests are deemed worthy by an Almighty Supernatural Being while the vast majority are left to suffer the consequences of the natural world. It’s an incredibly naive and egotistical way to think. In fact, it seems as though God would be far more ethical to either intervene all the time or not at all, rather than choosing to intervene once in a while to help people out of not-so-special circumstances.
Besides, if only the all-merciful and omni-benevolent creator of the universe was kind enough to help out a few sinners (aren’t we all) once in a while, why not turn his powers to all of the millions of starving children, cancer patients, and AIDS sufferers throughout his majestic world? Perhaps he could even lend a hand without first requiring belief or propitiation…